Eleven years ago…
- an unknown student called Mark Zuckerberg went on TV to talk about his little-known website called The Facebook (which only had about 100,000 subscribers at the time)
- 52.2 million TV viewers tuned in to watch the last ever episode of Friends
- the Queen Mary II, the largest cruise liner ever built, made her maiden voyage
- Hot Fuss (The Killers) and American Idiot (Green Day) and Funeral (Arcade Fire) were released
- 344 people, mostly children were killed in the Beslan school massacre in Russia
- Janet Jackson’s costume slipped during the Superbowl halftime show, exposing a nipple and giving us the term “wardrobe malfunction”
- terrorist bombs on a Madrid commuter train killed 190 people
- Britney Spears got married. Erm… twice.
- Edvard Munch’s The Scream was stolen at gunpoint from the Munch museum in Oslo (it was found, unharmed, in 2006)
- Google introduced a webmail service called Gmail, which everybody thought was a joke as it was announced on 1 April
And in other news, a South African living in London sat down one Sunday night back in May 2004 and started a blog – this blog, in fact – and she hasn’t looked back since. It does not feel like I have been blogging that long, and yet when you look at the newsworthy events listed above, you realise that eleven years is in fact rather a long time. And if I am honest, I can barely remember what it was like not to have a blog constantly craving new content, like a hungry cat twirling about my legs, in my life. Every year when this anniversary rolls around and encourages me to engage in some bloggy navel-gazing, I think I must by now have said everything that can possibly be said, and yet every year the wider context of food blogging has changed a little more and I find myself formulating new responses to these changes. This year is no different.
So what’s up with food blogging these days? Two things recently made me ask that question. First there was a post in a Facebook group recently where a blogger lamented: “I’ve been blogging for four months now and I am still not getting really good traffic – what’s wrong with my site?”. Four. Months. Talk about the desire for instant gratification… It seems to me that people are getting into blogging now thinking that the mere ability to take a decent photo and string a sentence together will guarantee instant Pinch of Yum style success, preferably in four months or less. The other thing was a rather depressing conversation with a fellow-blogger who told me that a blog is a granny’s online journal where bad food snaps taken on a mobile phone are shared with their granny friends; that any blogger who deals with PRs or free meals/samples must immediately stop being a hobby blogger and “turn pro” and stop calling themselves a blogger; and that they did not even want to be called a blogger any more as they think the term now has negative connotations attached to it.
It all makes me feel as if blogging is kind of losing the plot at the moment – wasn’t it meant to be fun? And isn’t it still possible to have fun even if you are earning money from it? All of the above got me thinking whether my eleven years in blogging had provided me with any useful insights or observations that I might share with newbie bloggers to try and bring some of the joy back to blogging, and here’s the list that I came up with.
1. There is no shame in being a blogger. I am one of those rare creatures who has never tried to distance themselves from being “just” a blogger. Yes, I know I have been snubbed by print journalists at events when they hear I “only” write for my own blog; or been told that bloggers are all in it “just for the freebies”, and you probably will too at some point. Pay no attention. Journalists receive at least as many freebies as bloggers and nobody thinks less of them for it. And instead of wishing that you wrote for a print publication, revel in the complete editorial and artistic freedom that your blog gives you.
2. There is no set of rules for how to blog “properly” – ignore anybody that tries to tell you this. I had a debate with somebody recently who said that a food blog is ONLY an online recipe diary and as soon as you branched out into doing tutorials or reviews or anything not written in a diary style, then you can no longer call yourself a blog. I have also had somebody say to me that anybody who uses pre-made ingredients has no right to call themselves a food blogger. Oops. Best I hide the Bisto gravy granules now, or turn in my blogging badge forever ‘cos clearly I have been doing it wrong for 11 years.
3. Invest heavily in your core skills – and I mean an investment in time rather than only in money. At its core, a blog is a collection of words and pictures (and, increasingly, video), nothing more. It is the quality and usefulness of those words and pictures, as judged by your readers, that determines whether your blog attracts a following or sinks without a trace. There is absolutely no point in having a huge Twitter following or being the SEO ace on the block or being best friends with every PR agency in town if your blog is so full of ugly pictures and sloppy, boring, bad writing that nobody wants to read it. Attend fewer lectures on SEO and blog monetisation and attend a few on writing and photography instead.
4. There is no one-size-fits-all formula for blog success. People blog for different reasons, and success does not mean the same thing to every blogger. For some, success is getting a book deal, getting to the top of a ranking table, or hitting a certain number of visitors per month; while for others success is measured in the number of comments a post gets, or in the awards that their blog has won. More recently, monetisation has been a major goal. Each one of these goals has a different path that leads to its attainment. The blogs that win awards are seldom also the blogs earning the most money, or the blogs at the top of the ranking tables. Decide what it is that you want to get out of YOUR blog (and remember that it’s also OK to have no idea what your goal is for the first year or so!) and stop looking at what everyone else is doing and trying to copy their “formula” for success. Plough your own furrow.
5. Write for people, not for search engines. Yes, we all know Google sends us more traffic than any other referrer. Yes, we know we can make our site more Google-friendly by using clever SEO techniques. No, what is attractive to Google is seldom attractive to real human beings – and you should never forget that it is humans you are writing for, not Google. Write in proper English, without keywords to the max, and don’t get bogged down by silly “rules” about the ideal post length. If you write 250 words per post and your readers flock to you; or you write 2,500 words per post and your readers flock to you, then what difference does it make if some SEO geek in Silicon Valley wrote an article saying the ideal post length for Google is 500 words?
6. Don’t over- or under-value yourself. Nobody likes a diva. And they are even less keen on a blogger who calls up a restaurant and demands a freebie because, like “I have a blog – do you know who I am? I could take you down with a bad review.”. And said blogger looks even more ridiculous if they have 100 hits a month and 10 Twitter followers: aiming high is one thing but behaving in an entitled and petulant fashion is another thing entirely. On the other end of the scale, however exciting it may be the first time a brand offers you a free product, don’t slave away creating content for a brand in exchange for a free packet of crisps or a spatula. Obviously the bigger your audience, the larger the fees you can charge, but bear in mind that even a hobby blogger’s time has value. PRs don’t work for brands for free, so why should you work for the same brand for free when they plan to make money out of your content?
7. Choose your blogging friends carefully. Much as I’d like to say that the food blogging world is one big happy family, it is now big enough to be quite fragmented and cliquey. There are long-standing feuds, there are scandals, and there is drama – just like The Bold and the Beautiful (but with fewer shoulder pads). Public mudslinging is a bad idea and mud always ends up on the shoes of the slinger, so try to maintain a professional courtesy towards all your fellow bloggers. On the other hand, try not to get too close to the volatile crazies who might be amusing to watch but tend to suck you into their dramas; and avoid permanently negative and critical people like the plague. Find some like-minded people who share approximately your goals and blogging aspirations; who are willing to be supportive and helpful; and who inspire you in some way, and hang out with them, support and try to inspire them. No blog is an island.
8. Don’t publish anything on your blog that is not useful to your readers and that you are not proud of. You never know when the editor of Time Magazine will stumble across your blog while researching a piece on “Top Food Blogs to Follow Right Now”. Make sure that if today turns out to be that day, the image at the top of your blog is gorgeous, and that the post below it is free from typos, text speak and packed with useful, timeless information. Sloppy, clickbait-y lazy, ugly posts should never see the light of day – rather post nothing that day. Your blog is, for most bloggers, your most significant body of work – make sure that it’s a body that makes you glow with pride rather than cringe with embarrassment when you look back on it.
9. Create original content. You’d think that this goes without saying, now that blogging has reached a fairly advanced stage of maturity and everybody has heard the news that not everything visible on the net is available for the taking. You’d be wrong. I am personally dismayed at the number of blogs that I have come across that “borrow” content without crediting a source. Whole tracts of Wikipedia appear on some blogs without credit; images are blatantly lifted from Google image searches without credit; whole recipes and backstories are lifted from old or defunct blogs and presented as original work. Bloggers who think this is OK and that nobody will ever know need to remember that Google, the Wayback machine and Copyscape make plagiarism easier than ever to detect. Rather post nothing that stealing somebody else’s content.
10. Blogging is a marathon, not a sprint. Fact: most blogs fold within six months. And even if you manage to keep yours going, don’t get depressed if you don’t have hundreds of thousands of monthly visitors, a book deal and a salary from your blog within the first year. Or even the second year. The more content your blog has and the longer the domain has been active, the more traffic Google sends to it; and the longer you have been blogging, the more people will be inclined to bookmark your site and keep returning. Unless you actually are Kim Kardashian, blog success is not something that happens overnight. Keep at it, keep improving, and good things will come. And remember – if it’s not fun, you’re doing it wrong!
So how did I celebrate my 11 years of blogging? With dessert, of course! Shocking as it may sound, I have never been a fan of traditional trifle. I can take or leave custard, and putting multi-coloured cubes of jelly in a dessert just seems wrong if you are serving anybody over the age of six. But that was before a friend introduced me to Black Forest trifle: think Black Forest cake, but in the form of a trifle: chocolate, cherries and booze Seriously, what’s not to like? The lovely folks at Bonne Maman recently sponsored the food photography and styling workshop that Meeta and I ran in London and one of the items they generously sent us were their milk chocolate madeleines. How to make a madeleine even more perfect? Dip half of it in chocolate of course! Nibbling on them got me thinking about how they might work as a trifle base, paired with the essential elements of a Black Forest cake, so that’s what I did. Two observations: trifles seem far less daunting and far more attractive when made in single portions in pretty glasses; and why has nobody told me about the cheat’s way to make chocolate custard before? Custard, chocolate, heat, stir, et voila! Dangerous. The only thing I would say is that the custard ended up a bit runny and headed for the bottom of the glass rather than forming a layer on top of the cherries, so if you were to make your own you could make the consistency less runny. But other than that, this was a perfect dessert – quick to make and decadently delicious to eat. Roll on the next eleven years!
If you enjoyed this post, you may also like to read my 10 year anniversary post including six things that ten years of blogging have taught me. If, unlike me, you are crazy for trifle, here are some other recipes for you to try:
- Gary’s Royal Wedding trifle
- Sarah’s mini chocolate-raspberry trifles
- Meeta’s rhubarb and raspberry trifle
- Jac’s banoffee trifle
- Ren’s tiramisu trifle
- Emily’s chocolate Bailey’s trifle
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- 120g dark chocolate, broken into small pieces
- 500ml good quality prepared custard
- 1 x 425g tin of cherries + extra to garnish (I used glacé cherries to garnish)
- 75ml brandy or kirsch
- 6 Bonne Maman chocolate madeleines, sliced or crumbled
- 300ml double cream
- 200ml crème fraiche
- 25g caster sugar
- grated dark chocolate to garnish
- The day before you plan to assemble the trifles, drain the tin of cherries and place the fruit in a shallow bowl together with the brandy. Cover with cling film and refrigerate overnight.
- Pour the custard into a pyrex bowl set over a pot of simmering water on the stove and add the broken dark chocolate pieces to it. Stir continuously as the chocolate melts. Once there are no lumps and all the chocolate is melted (under 5 minutes), remove from the heat and allow to cool fully.
- Slice or crumble the madeleines into bite-sized pieces. Place the pieces from 1.5 madeleines in the base of each of four pretty glasses (wide whisky tumblers or brandy balloons are the best). Drain the brandy from the cherries and sprinkle an equal amount of brandy over the madeleines in the base of each glass. Divide the boozy cherries between the four glasses and arrange in a layer on top of the madeleines. Carefully spoon the custard over the cherries.
- In a clean bowl, whip together the crème fraiche, cream and caster sugar until soft peaks form, then spook the mixture over the custard in each glass. garnish with the extra cherries and top with grated dark chocolate.
Lynn says
I enjoy a good Triffle and I enjoyed reading this post. Congratulations on 11 years of Blogging.
I’ll be putting a few of your observations and thoughts into my own blog.
Rosa says
Wow, congratulations! What a milestone.
Those individual trifles look divine. A great combination of flavours.
Cheers,
Rosa
Sally - My Custard Pie says
Jeanne – it’s been an absolute pleasure getting to know you on and offline through this blog for quite a few of those 11 years. Congratulations for the marathon – and bravo for these wise words.
BUT…. I’ve just read those fateful words … “I can take or leave custard..”
Truly shocked.
Kit says
Once again, Jeanne, thanks for being a blogger who stands up for blogging, who always puts up something interesting to read: thoughts, stories and stuff to get your teeth into, as well as delicious recipes!
My blog is a venerable 9 years old now and still going, though it hasn’t ever grown beyond a personal blog. What it has done is grown my writing skills from a blogging seed to a full-time writer of all sorts of things, from web to print. But most of all I appreciate the people I’ve met through blogging and the real community of friends from the early years. I reckon I’m a blogger and a writer and never mind those who think blogs are Granny recipe cards!
nazima says
What a wonderful piece of writing Jeanne, there are few blogs where I am compelled to read every word, but yours has always been one of them. Not only great pictures but wise and clever words weaved into lovely stories. Love your words of wisdom here and the choc cherry trifle sounds wonderful!
Herschelian says
Eleven years! where does the time go? it feels like just the other day I first read one of your blog posts – yet I may well have been one of your early followers. ‘Too many recipes, too little time’ to paraphrase Cecil John Rhodes!
As for print journalists – I think their reactions to bloggers are because of the cold wind of reality blowing round their ankles – many bloggers (not just food bloggers) beat the pants off journalists who thought they had a god-given right to write commentary on various subjects.
Good bloggers do just as much research as journalists, and are just as informed on their topics – what is more, they are usually extremely passionate about what they are writing.
You are one of the best – so happy Eleventh Blog Anniversary from me in Beijing!
Jacqueline Meldrum says
I really enjoyed reading this post Jeanne and I agree with all of your very sage advice. A good reminder to us all. I can’t believe it’s been 11 years, that’s just crazy, but I’m happy to celebrate with one of those trifles.
ps thanks for linking to one of mine x
Jacqueline Meldrum says
Darn forgot to add some stars. Definitely 5 stars!
Jen says
Congratulations on 11 years of blogging Jeanne, it is a fantastic achievement on a par with an ultra marathon. I’ve only been doing this for about 3 years but have already noticed how the food blogging landscape has changed in that time. You’ve given some very sensible advice and absolutely hit the nail on the head when it comes to instant gratification and expecting to have it all straight away. I think blogging is a fun experience with or without specific goals and it’s good to see that you clearly still enjoy it so much after all this time and have gained so much from it.
I’m not a fan of the traditional trifle, the combination of cold custard and jelly doesn’t do it for me, however the pairing of chocolate custard, cherries and kirsch is very tempting…
Cherie City says
Happy Blog Birthday! 11 years is pretty amazing.
Interesting points raised. I’d just say blog with transparency, don’t compare too much to others and try to keep it fun.
Helene @Croque-Maman says
Happy anniversary! Such a great post… investing in your core skills is such a rewarding process. I have learnt so much since I have started my blog, I love it. These madeleines are so delicious too!!!
Emma @ Supper in the Suburbs says
Congratulations on reaching 11 years. I’ve been blogging myself for nearly 5 and am a amazed at your achievement.
I really connected with this post. The last 12 months of blogging for me has been the hardest. You’re right the blogging world has changed and not for the better.
I’m trying to redefine what blogging means to me and what I see as success. I’m not in it for the monetisation and get frustrated by these who criticise hobby bloggers for ruining the food blogging “market”.
I do it for the love of food and creativity and I don’t want that to ever change! I hope some of the newbies take your wise words on board.
Here’s to another 11 years!
Dannii @ Hungry Healthy Happy says
wow, 11 years is incredible. Well done for sticking at it. I love your point about there being no shame in being a blogger. It is more widely recognised now, which is a good thing.
Su-Lin says
Now this is a blogging list I actually believe in!
Congrats on 11 massive years, Jeanne!!
Andrew says
Nice looking trifle! Shame the diet is ongoing…
Has it really been 11 years? How things have changed … look what your/our efforts and dedication have given us over the time – yes the trips and the free stuff, but also the crises, the dramas and of course the FUN!
Simone says
O how right you are Jeanne about any of the above. When i started out blogging i seriously had no idea what I wanted or where it was going and consequently I think I made all the blogging ‘mistakes’ you can possibly think of. Including starting all over again.. Lol.. I had a very similar discussion with a young blogger the other day. She was depressed her blog had so little readers. And I mean really depressed. So I asked her how many years she was blogging. Turns out she started two months ago… And it seems to be more the norm than the exception these days.
I love blogging and I think I am probably addicted to it, but most of all, I do it because I love it! Great post…!
Kalyan says
Congrats on 11 years of blogging and for reminding us that blogging should be fun
Anushruti says
Congratulations for completing 11 years Jeanne! And this was a fantastic read! You echoed and translated so many feelings that we come across over a period of blogging and put it all up in one piece. Kudos!
Jude says
Well done, what an impressive amount of time to be blogging, and many thanks for the super advice, I’ll come back and re-read this when I’m flapping that I’m not good enough or need more followers. I particularly like what you have written about integrity and being true to yourself, such wise words.
Looking forward to the next eleven years.
And I love a great trifle recipe:-) Jude x
Emily Leary says
Wow. 11 years? Congratulations! Those trifles are stunning. Thanks very much for the mention.
Ailbhe says
11 years. Phew that is a marathon and there’s lots more to come we hope 🙂
I’ve just realised I’ve been blogging 5 years. That’s 5 years of meeting some friendly, generous, fun-loving people. For me, blogging is just another creative outlet and I’ve loved watching food friends publish books, set up businesses and expand their skills. You’ve earned all your accolades, Jeanne, no doubt you’ll celebrate with a glass or two of something suitable. Congratulations on staying the distance so far with style and grace and great photos.
Chocolate, cherry, kirsch trifle… hello. That’s me right there (along w a sweet pudding wine please).
Rosana, Hot&Chilli Food and Travel Blog says
Great looking recipe, what a sweet way to celebrate 11 years of Cooksister. Congratulations! Rx
Sundari Giri says
Am reading every word of yours with wide eyes and truly impressed. The points are so well explained. Makes me proud to be a blogger though I am just a novice.
Barbara says
Huge congrats on 11 years of constant blogging, Jeanne, and thanks for yet another insightful post.
Instant gratification – love it! But not in connection with blogging maybe more with indulging with delicious food, enjoy and repent later.
Cheers and here’s to the next 11 years!
Laura@howtocookgoodfood says
Oh you have done yourself proud Jeanne. Eleven years of quality blogging is almost impossible to recreate but you do it so effortlessly. I especially love your point about core skills, and yes blogs should be about who you are writing to, which is exactly why you have such a great following.
I wasn’t all that keen on trifle but have developed a taste for it and as a chocolate and madeleine and black forest fan, yours wins my vote! Happy 11th blog anniversary 🙂
Loving Life says
Congratulations on your 11 years!
Great post. Your words ring so true. I’m just starting out (my blog is just 6 months old) but I take value in your words that you have to write what you want and do it for you. Yes there might be opportunities round the corner, but it’s important to do what you enjoy doing.
Great recipe too! They look so yummy.
Sally @ Life Loving
Jonker - Firefly says
Congratulations on 11 years of blogging. I absolutely love your piece and so agree with everything you say. I have been blogging for over 7 years now and I still do it because I love it and have a passion for what I share.
I have a lot of frustrations being a blogger based in PE because not even the local tourism organization, whom I worked for for 6 years, seem to realize the value of bloggers. Over the last year there has also been a lot of moves from within the blogging community (specially in Cape Town) pushing for bloggers to be professional. I have never been paid to do blogging yet I still see myself as a professional blogger because that is how I act in my dealings as a blogger. Perhaps it doesn’t bother me because I have a full time job paying the bills. I really wouldn’t mind getting paid to do some blogging every now and then though. 🙂
Continue the awesome job you do. One thing I want to ask. Where do you even find the time to write as much as you do?
Alicia (foodycat) says
Happy blogoversary! I think chocolate dipped madeleines sound much nicer than plain ones.
Pille @ Nami-Nami says
Happy blog anniversary, Jeanne! I feel honoured to have met you for the first time back in 2005 🙂
Niamh says
Superb advice Jeanne! I so agree with all here. A blog is just a piece of technology, what you do with it is up to you. Also agree with the negativity comment. Happy blog birthday! 11 is an awesome achievement x
Elizabeth says
Well done on blogging for eleven years! And brilliantly too. But really? You’re using Bonne Maman chocolate madeleines in your trifle rather than making the madeleines from scratch? I’m shocked. I really did think you would know better. Especially on an anniversary. {snort}
Aside from the use of storebought madeleines in your trifle, I am forced to admit that it sounds fabulous. Kind of like a Black Forest Cake gone mad.
Put the blame on Zuckerberg for the fact that I am often too lazy to come in and leave comments on people’s blogs. And that’s sad. I keep vowing to turn over a new leaf. I really do….
I don’t even know how long I’ve been blogging. I’ve never even heard of Hot Fuss (The Killers), American Idiot (Green Day) and Funeral (Arcade Fire). I had no idea that a food blog was ONLY an online recipe diary and/or that doing tutorials or reviews or anything not written in a diary style was not blog worthy and/or that the ideal post length for Google is 500 words. See? Ignorance IS bliss.
Not to mention that once started, I can’t even keep the length of my comments down. (Already, I’ve written more than 200. Oh oh….)
Happy anniversary! And here’s to many many more years.
Barbara | Creative Culinary says
Some great commentary on the state of blogging. I started blogging but it wasn’t called that in 1995. I wanted to have a place to put favorite recipes and as friends and family got online it was so easy sharing and not having to write something down and mail it to them.
I’m proud to say that I’m doing it for the same reasons today. I share what I make for my friends and family. I don’t cook a damn turkey in August so it’s blog ready in November; if you do, fine but for ME, that’s just not the same as making it personal and in the moment. I’ve made things for dinner I had no intention of blogging about and after a bite had to hurry and setup some props and my camera because it was too good not to share…talk about seat of the pants right?
I saw a conversation today on what a blogger should expect when asked to be a part of a PR trip. OMG…talk about divas; I was embarrassed for all of those that had a long list of criteria to make it worthwhile…limos included. Things have sure changed haven’t they?
I guess I like in the moment; recipes and stories that seem real in the telling, not told just because they will fit a current trend. All through the Kale phase I just couldn’t help but think…but Kale is AWFUL. So I didn’t. 🙂
Congrats my friend…11 is a long time and from the looks of it filled with lots of good food, nice events and some special trips. Here’s to 11 more!
Magenta says
Firstly congratulations on 11 years blogging!.. time fly’s when your having fun!
Secondly thank you for sharing this trifle recipe 😉